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		<title>That Why We Are Indian</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Sep 2010 16:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suresh Kumar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People living here in India are from different religion, region and language. We all unique in our own personal life but common and connects each other in several thought. That&#8217;s how we prove our self as Indian. Following are some of the facts of India, we do and follow several years and we like to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" src="http://sureshforuin.files.wordpress.com/2010/09/flag.jpg" alt="India" width="250" height="189" />People living here in India are from different religion, region and language. We all unique in our own personal life but common and connects each other in several thought. That&#8217;s how we prove our self as Indian.</p>
<p>Following are some of the facts of India, we do and follow several years and we like to live like this</p>
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<li>We are more tolerable and we fight for inconsiderable minor issues.</li>
<li>We always respect women; at times we may attack them</li>
<li>We are non religious  and but we ask people to write down their religion in all the form</li>
<li>In some states people will not be trained to our national language.</li>
<li>We severally punish small social mistakes and we will give chances only for big criminals.</li>
<li>We will change the government as we want and we will complain them as long as we can.</li>
<li>We have countless traditions and religions, we follow any one of them and we will fight which is best among them.</li>
<li>We mostly use products that are not manufactured in India.</li>
<li>We always struggle for our rights.</li>
<li>We spend more money for weekend movies and cut cost on basic needs.</li>
<li>We appreciate sports players more than Indian Soldiers.</li>
<li>We sometimes forget our real-life heroes.</li>
<li>We love, hate, help and fight ourselves and that why we are Indian.</li>
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<p>We all are the combination of different colors in mind. Some narrow, some broad minded, some insane, some idiots and some brilliants and some normal too. There are devils and I am sure that the Gods are more in numbers.</p>
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		<title>Another Drug for life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suresh Kumar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When mind was bothered with something, it will always search for drugs that really release the stress. I prefer lots of things for me. Tamil books are my best things for my peace. I really have very less time to read books now a day. After a very long time I read Bharathi&#8217;s Poem. I [...]]]></description>
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<p>When mind was bothered with something, it will always search for drugs that really release the stress. I prefer lots of things for me. Tamil books are my best things for my peace. I really have very less time to read books now a day. After a very long time I read Bharathi&#8217;s Poem.</p>
<p>I read only a very less part of the book I felt an ecstasy in his words. That realized lots of things to me. Mind will always have a drug that gives ecstasy to it. Â A drug that gives an ecstasy differs from every one. Even a simple thing becomes a drug for life and that depends upon the situation.</p>
<p>Silence is my best drug to me that gives me a joyful ecstasy. And now I am adding one more drug to my life. That is this great Poet Books. I was impressed more from these lines. <em>(I heard this Kamal hasan saying in Mahanadhi movie.) </em>I didn&#8217;t understand these lines when i saw the movie at that age. But I understood now.</p>
<p>தேடிச் சோறுநிதந் தின்று<br />
பல சின்னஞ் சிறுகதைகள் பேசி<br />
மனம் வாடித் துன்பமிக உழன்று<br />
பிறர் வாடப் பல செயல்கள் செய்து<br />
நரை கூடிப் கிழப்பருவம் எய்தி<br />
கொடுங் கூற்றுக் கிரையெனப்பின் மாயும்<br />
பல வேடிக்கை மனிதரைப் போலே<br />
நான் வீழ்வே னென்று நினைத்தாயோ?</p>
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		<title>What a Creativity?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 17:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suresh Kumar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi friends here after i am going to write blog to improve my writing skill. Let me try a new post which is completely related to advertisement. I always love advertisement that is logical and sensational like Airtel, Hutch and Vodafone .. . But now here are some new strategies to attract girls through advertisement. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends here after i am going to write blog to improve my writing skill.</p>
<p>Let me try a new post which is completely related to advertisement.</p>
<p>I always love advertisement that is logical and sensational like Airtel, Hutch and Vodafone .. .</p>
<p>But now here are some new strategies to attract girls through advertisement.</p>
<p>Think of this advertisement like Bajaj Pulsar, AXE Effect,Fairever handsome and Mento fresh.</p>
<p>Advertisement is a place where u can expose maximum creativity. ana ivanga panra lollu erukae enna nu sollurathu.</p>
<p>Pulsar iruntha 10 ponnungala correct panalama</p>
<p>Axe effect potta ponnunga mobile number kudupangalam, date fix panalama am.</p>
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<p>Dei enakada ithu&#8230;Creativity ku oru alavu illa.</p>
<p>Appa <strong>BMW car</strong> vangina 100 ponnungala correct panlama.</p>
<p>namma pasanga local cinthol soap ae vanga mattanga ituhla axe effect uh.</p>
<p>Mento fresh Director koyala kailaya kedachean avana oru vali panniduvean</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Lilla pannu impress! vangi sapidu mento fresh&#8230;</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>pala varusahma correct ponna mudiyatha lilla va 50 kasu mento fresh la correct pannuvangalam.</p>
<p>Dei enakada ithu roomba over ah pannurenga&#8230;..</p>
<p>keata <strong>out of box</strong> thinking  nu  ithuku oru terminology vera.</p>
<p>Nasama ponga da&#8230;</p>
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		<title>சுஜாதாவின் பத்து கட்டளைகள்.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 05:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suresh Kumar</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. ஒன்றின் மேல் நம்பிக்கை வேண்டும், ஏதாவது ஒன்று. உதாரணம் கடவுள், இயற்கை, உழைப்பு, வெற்றி இப்படி எதாவது… நம்பிக்கை நங்கூரம் போல. கேள்வி கேட்காத நம்பிக்கை. கேள்வி கேட்பது சிலவேளை இம்சை. நவீன விஞ்ஞானம் அதிகப்படியாகக் கேள்வி கேட்டு இப்போது தவித்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறது. 2. அப்பா, அம்மா இரண்டு பேரும் வேலை சொல்வது பல சமயங்களில் கடுப்பாக இருக்கும். ஒருமாறுதலுக்கு அவர்கள் சொல்வதைச் செய்து பாருங்கள். அவர்கள் கேட்பது உங்களால் செய்யக் கூடியதாகவே இருக்கும். பொடிநடையாகப் [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. ஒன்றின் மேல் நம்பிக்கை வேண்டும், ஏதாவது ஒன்று. உதாரணம் கடவுள், இயற்கை, உழைப்பு, வெற்றி இப்படி எதாவது… நம்பிக்கை நங்கூரம் போல. கேள்வி கேட்காத நம்பிக்கை. கேள்வி கேட்பது சிலவேளை இம்சை. நவீன விஞ்ஞானம் அதிகப்படியாகக் கேள்வி கேட்டு இப்போது தவித்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறது.</p>
<p>2. அப்பா, அம்மா இரண்டு பேரும் வேலை சொல்வது பல சமயங்களில் கடுப்பாக இருக்கும். ஒருமாறுதலுக்கு அவர்கள் சொல்வதைச் செய்து பாருங்கள். அவர்கள் கேட்பது உங்களால் செய்யக் கூடியதாகவே இருக்கும். பொடிநடையாகப் போய் நூறு கிராம் காப்பி பவுடர் (அ) ரேஷன் கார்டு புதுப்பித்தல் இப்படிதான் இருக்கும்.</p>
<p>3. மூன்று மணிக்குத் துவங்கும் மாட்டனி போகாதீர்கள். க்ளாஸ் கட்பண்ண வேண்டி வரும். தலைவலி வரும். காசு விரயம். வீட்டுக்குப் போனதும் பொய் சொல்வதற்கு ரொம்ப ஞாபக சக்தி வேண்டும். இந்த உபத்திரத்துக்கு உண்மையைச் சொல்லிவிடுவது சுலபம். இளமைக்காலம், ஒளிக் கீற்றைப் போல் மிகவும் குறைந்த காலம், அதை க்யூ வரிசைகளிலும் குறைபட்ட தலைவர்களுக்காகவும் விரயம் செய்யாதீர்கள்.</p>
<p>4. நான்கு பக்கமாவது ஒரு நாளைக்குப் பொது விஷயங்களைப் படியுங்கள். பொது விஷயங்கள் என்றால் கதை, சினிமா, காதல் இல்லாதவை. உதாரணம் &#8211; யோக்கியமான செய்தித்தாள், மற்ற பேரைப் பற்றிக் கவலைப்படும் பத்திரிகைகள் அல்லது லைப்ரரியிருந்து ஒரு புத்தகம்.</p>
<p>5. ஐந்து ரூபாய் சம்பாதித்துப் பாருங்கள். சொந்தமாக உங்கள் உழைப்பில், முயற்சியில், யோக்கியமாக, மனச்சாட்சி உறுத்தாமல். அடுத்த முறை அப்பாவிடம் ஆயிரம் ரூபாய்க்கு ஷர்ட், சுடிதார் கேட்கும் முன்.</p>
<p>6. இந்தச் தகவல்களை படிக்கும் நிலைமை பெற்ற நீங்கள் இந்திய சனத்தொகையின் மேல்தட்டு ஆறு சதவிகித மக்களில் ஒருவர். அன்றாடம் சோற்றுக்காக அலையும், வசதியில்லாத கோடிக்கணக்கான மக்களைத் தினம் ஒரு முறை எண்ணிப் பாருங்கள்.</p>
<p>7. வாரத்தின் ஏழாவது தினமான ஞாயிறன்று என்ன செய்தாலும் காதல் பிஸினஸ் வேண்டாம். காதலுக்கு ரொம்பச் செலவாகும். மனம், வாக்கு, காயம்(உடல்), எல்லாவற்றையும் ஆக்கிரமிக்கும் தீ அது. பொய் நிறையச் சொல்ல வேண்டும். வினோதமான இடங்களில் காத்திருக்க வேண்டும். இந்த வயதில் நாசமாய்ப்போன படிப்புத்தான் உங்களுக்கு முக்கியம்.</p>
<p>குறிப்பு: பெண்களை சைட் அடிப்பதும், கலாட்டா பண்ணுவதும், அவர்களுக்கு கர்சீப் முதலியன ரோடிலிருந்து பொறுக்கிக் கொடுப்பதும், உபத்திரமில்லாத கவிதைகள் எழுதுவதும், காதலோடு சேர்த்தியில்லை.</p>
<p>8. எட்டு முறை மைதானத்தை சுற்றி ஓடினால் எந்தச் சீதோஷ்ணமாக இருந்தாலும் நெற்றி வியர்வை அரும்பும். எதாவது தேகப் பயிற்சி செய்யவும். கடிகாரத்துக்குப் சாவி கொடுப்பதோ சீட்டாடுவதோ தேகப் பயிற்சி ஆகாது. எதையாவது தூக்குங்கள், எதையாவது வீசி எறியுங்கள். உங்கள் உடலில் ஊறும் உற்சாகத்துக்கு ஓர் ஆரோக்கியமான வடிகால் தேவை. ராத்திரி சரியாக தூக்கம் வரும். கன்னா பின்னா எண்ணங்கள் தவிர்க்கப்படும். ஒழுங்காக சாப்பிடத்தோன்றும். பொதுவாகவே சந்தோஷமாக இருக்கும்.</p>
<p>9. ஒன்பது மணிக்குள் வீட்டுக்கு வரவும். மிஞ்சிப் போனால் ஒன்பது மணி இரண்டு நிமிடம். ஒரு மணி நேரம் பாடம் அல்லது புத்தகம் படிக்கலாம்.</p>
<p>10. படுக்கப் போகும் முன் பத்து நிமிஷமாவது அம்மா, அப்பா, அண்ணண், தங்கை யாருடனாவது பேசவும் (பேசுவது என்று சொன்னவுடன் காதலியுடன் என்று நினைக்க வேண்டாம், நான் சொன்னது குடும்பத்தினருடன் மட்டும்). எதாவது ஒரு அறுவை ஜோக் அல்லது காலேஜில் நடந்த நிகழ்வுகள். சப்ஜெக்ட் முக்கியமில்லை. பேசுவது தான்.</p>
<p>இந்த பத்தில் தினம் ஒன்று என்று முயற்சி செய்து தான் பாருங்களேன்.</p>
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		<title>Kamal Condolence over Sujatha&#8217;s Demise</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 10:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suresh Kumar</dc:creator>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 14:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><strong><span style="color:rgb(0,0,153);">The train has started moving. It is packed with people of all ages, mostly with the working men and women and young college guys and gals. Near the window, seated a old man with his 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside.. &#8220;See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful&#8221;</p>
<p>This behavior from a thirty year old son made the other people feel strange about him. Everyone started murmuring something or other about this son.&#8221;This guy seems to be a crack..&#8221; newly married Anup whispered to his wife. Suddenly it started raining&#8230; Rain drops fell on the travelers through the opened window.</span></strong></div>
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<div><strong><span style="color:rgb(0,0,153);">The Thirty year old son , filled with  joy &#8221; see dad, how beautiful the rain is ..&#8221; Anup&#8217;s wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit. Anup,&#8221; can&#8217;t you see its raining, you old man, if ur son is not feeling well get him soon to a mental asylum..and don&#8217;t disturb public henceforth&#8221; </span></strong></div>
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<div><strong><span style="color:rgb(0,0,153);">The old man hesitated first and then in a low tone replied &#8221; we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged today morning ,he was a blind by birth, last week only he got his vision,  these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Please forgive us for the inconvenience caused&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>The things we see may be right from our perspective until we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt us. So try to understand the problem better before taking a harsh action.</span></strong></div>
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		<title>10 Steps To Better Decision Making</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2007 06:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Considering The Possibilities 1. Making a difficult choice can seem harrowing when you feel you&#8217;re working alone. Involve others in your decision making by asking for criticism and seeking advice from those who can approach the choice from a fresh perspective. Listen to opinions that fall on both sides of the topic at hand. You [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-family:Georgia;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;">1. Making a difficult choice can seem harrowing when you feel you&#8217;re working alone. Involve others in your decision making by asking for criticism and seeking advice from those who can approach the choice from a fresh perspective. Listen to opinions that fall on both sides of the topic at hand. You may also want to consult an expert.</p>
<p>2. Learn from your mistakes as well as your triumphs. Examine decisions you have made in the past as they will teach you more than you will learn from most other sources. Though some decisions will not seem important, all decisions shape our lives and should be regarded as educational. Apply that knowledge to your current dilemma.</p>
<p>3. A good decision acted upon in a timely matter is always better than a great one acted upon too late. It is important to recognize that you will never know enough to make the perfect decision. Don&#8217;t become paralyzed by your need to foresee all possible outcomes to every possible choice.</p>
<p>4. Involve your head and your heart. Ask both practical questions and personal questions about the problem at hand. Considering the facts as well as your feelings (and the feelings of others) when examining your options will ensure that you make a balanced decision.</p>
<p>5. Before anything else, focus on the most basic, necessary results. Often, a decision maker will get bogged down thinking about the non-essential elements of a decision. Avoid considering extraneous factors and far-fetched perfect outcomes. Ask yourself, &#8220;What needs to be done?&#8221;</p>
<p>6. Consider the entire range of possibilities, no matter how unlikely. When faced with a complex decision, brainstorm by yourself or with others to find as many of the vital elements as possible. Evaluate those elements as they relate to the choice you must make.</p>
<p>7. It was a wise person who noted that, &#8220;you can&#8217;t please all of the people all of the time.&#8221; <span style="border-bottom:1px dashed rgb(0,102,204);cursor:pointer;" class="yshortcuts">Almost all</span> decisions will involve some dissatisfaction or conflict. Some decisions may even create new problems. Once you have made a decision, stand by it. Keep in mind that you have used your best judgment and it was the best choice at the time.</p>
<p>8. Don&#8217;t waste time on poor choices. Reject poor choices, even if you&#8217;ve begun to implement them, and stop doing the things that aren&#8217;t working, so you can focus on the solutions that have strong potential.</p>
<p>9. Consult with the people who will be directly affected by your decision. People appreciate being heard and enjoy when their opinions are seen as valuable. Even making a simple choice can have a profound impact on those around you.</p>
<p>10. It is easy to dismiss your intuition, but in doing so, you may be disregarding valuable insight and even solutions. Ask yourself what choices you would make if you weren&#8217;t afraid and then see what your subconscious offers as an answer. Try to ignore the fear of error when consulting your &#8220;gut.&#8221;</span></span></p>
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		<title>7 ways to spirituality in the workplace</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2007 07:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are a spiritual being, even at work! Use your intuitive awareness and natural empathy and kindness in the workplace and you will be amazed by the way that others respond. Show them that their contribution is important&#8230;</p>
<p>Spirituality is not something we should practice only when it suits us according to time and place.It should be cherished and cultivated wherever we go. And since we spend most of our time in the workplace, it is imperative that we take our spiritual values with us even where we work. These values are creativity, communication, respect, vision, partnership, energy and flexibility. All these seven are related, and all are important.</p>
<p>By spirituality, we mean expressing more humanity; it has no religious component or preference. This interpretation is important since each person has their own beliefs, which should be respected.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">1. Be creative</span></p>
<p>Creativity includes the use of color, laughter and freedom to enhance productivity. Creativity is fun. When people enjoy what they do, they work much harder.</p>
<p>Creativity includes conscious efforts to see things differently, to break out of habits and outdated beliefs to find new ways of thinking, doing and being.</p>
<p>Suppression of creativity leads to violence &#8211; people are naturally creative. When they are forced to crush their creativity, its energy force turns to destructive release &#8211; their inherent humanity must express itself!</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">2. Communicate</span></p>
<p>Communication, communication, communication! This is the vehicle that allows people to work together. In our society, our learning process is based on learning to communicate with teachers and parents.</p>
<p>So when we come to the real world, this social conditioning leads us to resort to subterfuge &#8211; trying to figure out how to beat the system,gain extra favours, say the -popular thing or to keep our views to ourselves rather than -rock the boat.</p>
<p>We should change this mindset and express what we feel about without fear and let others know where we stand. It doesn&#8217;t matter your views should match your superiors. Your peers will respect you as a man with principles.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">3. Respect your colleagues</span></p>
<p>Respect of self and of others includes: respect for the environment; other people&#8217;s personal privacy, their physical space and belongings; different viewpoints, philosophies, religion, gender, lifestyle, ethnic origin, physical ability, beliefs and personality.</p>
<p>When we learn to respect our peers, we accept their differences. We can learn to use those differences for our mutual benefit. For example, the person who can sit all day in front of a computer and be productive can help the person who works best by talking and moving around. Both functions are important. Rather than criticising the other for being different, we can learn how different people see the world. Lack of respect and acceptance lead to conflict and hostility.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">4. Have a vision</span></p>
<p>Vision means seeing beyond the obvious &#8211; seeing the unseen. It is a trait used to describe leaders and entrepreneurs. Where does vision come from? For some people, it is an inborn trait. They have always seen things that others cannot see. And, having seen the vision, they head straight for it ! They follow their vision in spite of obstacles or non-believers.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">5. Learn to be a partner</span><br />Partnership encompasses individual responsibility and trust that other people will perform according to their commitments for the good of the team and partners. Partnership accepts that different people have different viewpoints and beliefs; those differences are used as positive aspects for broadening the team experience.<br />Partnership encourages the female and male aspects of ourselves to work together, without either one over-ruling or dominating the other. Lack of partnership leads to isolation and unhealthy competition.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">6. Be energetic</span></p>
<p>Very positive energy forces are released when people feel creative, have the freedom to express their opinions, and feel respect from their management and their peers. The opposite energy force creates hostile workplace situations.</p>
<p>Your contribution to the collective positive energy is using your own creativity, communicating well, having respect for others, adapting to changing situations, working well with others and enjoying what you do. Your contribution to the collective negative energy is withholding your talents, communicating without respect, fighting and arguing with others, resisting changes, creating tension with others and hating what you do.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">7.Be flexible</span></p>
<p>Flexibility includes the ability to adapt to changing situations and allowing one&#8217;s own beliefs and habits to change as needed. Learning to see trends and prepare for them is one way of learning flexibility. Another is to learn about ourselves, our own strengths and our weaknesses.</p>
<p>Then, work to operate from our strength, allowing others to help us with our weaknesses.<br />BUILDING SPIRITUALITY IN THE WORKPLACE<br />Verbally recognize the value of individuals in all you do<br /> Get to know the people with whom you work and know what is important to them<br /> State your personal ethics and your beliefs clearly<br /> Support causes outside the business<br /> Encourage leaders to use value-based discretion in making decisions<br /> Demonstrate your own self-knowledge and spirituality in all your actions<br /> Do unto others as you would have them do unto you</p>
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